This is a story about this chick that I thought was "the one", whatever that means anymore. For security purposes I'm going to change the names. (I can see this girl somehow finding this and suing the crap out of me). So the story begins when I was about 17 years old, she was 20. I start going to these parties with some buddies..All of a sudden I see this chick show up, now I don't know if it was the beer talking or what but I had to get to know her. So we're playing kings cup and I go out and smoke, and she follows me out there to smoke as well...instantly hit it off, start talking, shes putting her number in my phone and so on. So we go back inside to continue the game, and notice there aren't any seats, so what do I do? Pull her on my lap to sit...and of course she's willing. and then the expected happens with her grabbing my hand, putting it around her. So I'm pretty damn happy at this point. I got this beautiful girl that I instantly start crushing for on my lap. So the flirting continues through the rest of the night. We get to the point where I think we were both pretty drunk.. so I play it off as she spilled beer on my hand.(never happened) so she gets this little cute face and gives my hand a big lick. (and remember this is the first night) So the end of the night comes and I can't leave my buddy hanging so we start walking home, when all of a sudden we see this SUV pull up behind us, so I go up to the window to check it out and see who it is....Its her...she called us stupid for walking in the snow and to get in and she'll give us a ride. Well duh we're gonna get in, or at least I was. Now we're in the car, and neither of us can get a smile off our faces, and once again grabs my hand to hold it. Drops us off at my place, and leaves. As soon as she leaves I get a text... Now we start texting all night. I can't get this girl out of my head at this point.
We start hanging out pretty much everyday. We would go out around town, drive around. All my friends loved her. We made her one of us. Okay, well obviously I made her to much like one of us to where one of my biddies started to also have a crush on her. So at that age of course I get tossed to the curb...It nearly killed me. They start dating and I start getting the threats. My own friend decided to get everyone against me, and to try and jump me. So this goes on for a few months... Finally I saw screw it and move on. Well when this guy and her broke up, guess who the first person she called was...me.... So of course I go right over while this dude is getting tossed out of her house. That means she called me as soon or right before they broke up because I remember seeing him actually with all this shit drive off. And of course I have this nice shit eating grin on my face cause I got my girl back. SO once again we start hanging out, I'm at her work pretty much everyday just to see her and she would come to my work at night. Thought it was getting pretty serious again.....I was wrong. She up and moved to Idaho.
Now 6 years later, I get these messages on Facebook... Telling me the real reason why she moved...She told me the first time the reason she was moving was due to her job and she was going to be a branch manager. But now I get this new put on me that the real reason that she moved was because she was scared. She was scared that what we had was to good to be true. So her natural instinct was to run...and ran did she. At this point I'm pretty emotional. I mean 6 years later of course I'm in a relationship with someone else. (not saying that things were going all roses and rainbows with us) but none the less. She actually starts talking with my current girlfriend and those two start to become pretty good friends. They would talk about my current relationship and she was "helping" us out. At this point this chick wanted to see me..So she tells me to tell my current girlfriend that shes going to come hang out with me. So I think the exact message I sent her was "Hey, what time are you out of school?" I get a reply of "Not for a few hours, why?" I say, "Because "this chick" wants to come hang out, is that cool?" "Yeah, that's fine". Right off the bat I'm a little concerned, for the fact that one of the biggest problems we had was jealousy. Any who, this chick comes over. We start talking about how Idaho was and just catching up. All of a sudden, my current girlfriend walks in...now this hasn't been a few hours, this was MAYBE an hour tops. So first thing I say is, "I thought you were taking a test in school...that was fast" and I get "yeah, well I finished early and they let me go".....Mmmhhhmmm...Right. So now I have the awkwardness of my current girlfriend and my ex...in the same room. I'm going to tell you right now that NOTHING ever comes good out of that.
This chick decides to leave because of the awkwardness. And so my current girlfriend and I start fighting. So this chick goes back to Idaho, because she was only here to visit and get things lines up for her move back. Well now my girlfriend and I are fighting...and I mean a good fight. So this chick asks me to help her move back. And because of the mood I was in with my current situation I decide to go for it. This chick buys me a plane ticket and flies me out there. Now I really got a situation on my hands.. Needless to say, I flew out there, and as soon as I got there, started the dive back..It wasn't like I was sleeping with her, or anything like that. We stayed in the car THE WHOLE TRIP...Ugh. Anyway, 27ish hours later, we get back into town. Now I have a feeling I'm in pretty big trouble...And of course I was right. I start getting yelled at left and right. So finally I had enough. With the jealousy, the constant fight we did...everything. I broke it off.
Now this gets tricky... The day after the break up, I was heading to the mountains to snowboard. I ask this chick if she wants to come with...(a reminder, when I say go up to the mountains I mean for a week). So she says yes and now we're up there having the time of our lives, snowboarding together, going out on the town...It was just like the old days. Now a week in a condo all to ourselves, I think you know what happened.
We start dating....again...
Stay tuned for part 2